[parallel,release] Adds a new buffered communicator that does not need to know the data amount per index when receiving.

During communication of data with a parallel DUNE grid the amount of data items
received at an index is not known at the receiving side. With this communicator
it is possible to build such a communication based on index lists at the sending
and receiving side. With this patch only fixed size of data items per index is
supported.
(cherry picked from commit dd1e8595)

Signed-off-by: Christoph Grüninger <gruenich@dune-project.org>